tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27497075418838510622024-03-13T21:37:52.196+08:00LGBTQ News About SingaporeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger713125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-10130667673661952792008-11-09T14:48:00.000+08:002008-11-12T14:50:18.495+08:00AsiaOne: Sex, drugs and the hard facts (Nov 9)Sex, drugs and the hard facts<br /><br />In town last month to promote her work, Elizabeth Pisani, the London-based 44-year-old epidemiologist, is as unflinchingly honest in real life as she is in the book.<br />Tan Hui Yee<br /><br />Tue, Nov 11, 2008<br />The Sunday Times<br /><br />The speaker takes the microphone to address the handful of people at the corner of Page One bookstore. Please, he asks those milling around, take your seats for a session with the author.<br /><br />No one stirs until a small, pixie-faced woman leans over the mike and announces: 'Sex and drugs in the corner! Sex and drugs in the corner!'<br /><br />Peals of laughter break out. The seats fill up. The woman is Elizabeth Pisani. Her newly released book, The Wisdom Of Whores, gives an insider's view of the bloated Aids industry and it literally has a lot to do with sex and drugs.<br /><br />In town last month to promote her work, the London-based 44-year-old epidemiologist is as unflinchingly honest in real life as she is in the book. The former Economist journalist, who spent more than 10 years tracking and fighting the spread of the disease in organisations such as the World Bank, UNAIDS and the World Health Organisation takes no prisoners as she attempts to pin down exactly what is wrong with the system.<br /><br />Acquired immune deficiency syndrome (Aids), she says, is 'completely preventable' with a condom and a clean needle. The HIV virus, which causes it, is spread mainly through sex, and drug addicts using infected needles.<br /><br />But bureaucrats, religious leaders and politicians are squeamish about providing or promoting the use of the two relatively cheap items. Some even insist on making abstinence central to HIV prevention programmes.<br /><br />'But discouraging sex is never a winning game. Sex is a lot of fun and people will go a long way to get it,' she says.<br /><br />'Abstinence has no effect on preventing the spread of HIV. It sometimes delays the spread of HIV by about a year and a half, but it doesn't seem to have any effect at all on the overall levels of HIV.'<br /><br />She also pokes fun at unrealistic pro-abstinence groups, one of which suggests on its website that people 'visit a nursing home' instead of having sex.<br /><br />'Hmmm, visit a nursing home or have an orgasm? Now let me see...If we base our prevention programme around things which are so obviously absurd, we're going to get nowhere,' she declares.<br /><br />'Absurd' is also the word she uses for the Singapore Government's move earlier this year to criminalise anyone who has reason to believe that he may be infected with the HIV virus and yet has sex with another person without first informing that person of the risk.<br /><br />She says: 'I can't imagine a situation when you're in Batam for the weekend with your golf buddy and you're in the brothel, and you think: Oh, you know what, actually I won't have sex with this girl because otherwise if I don't tell my partner I might get into trouble. Or I will use a condom because otherwise...People don't think like that. It's impossible to regulate your way out of this problem.'<br /><br />'Nothing,' she declares, 'gets in the way of common sense like erections and addiction.'<br /><br />In her book, she suggests instead that the enforcement of condom use be put in the hands of those in power. The Thai government, for example, registered great success when it threatened to put out of business brothel owners who were lax in enforcing the use of condoms.<br /><br />The scientist in her will not let political correctness get in the way of plain facts.<br /><br />While she is derisive of religious zealots who try to paint Aids as a gay disease, she is equally critical of gay men who are lax in their use of condoms.<br /><br />She writes in her book: 'HIV is not divine retribution for unprotected anal sex with lots of other people. It is simply a consequence of unprotected anal sex with lots of other people, in the same way that lung cancer is a consequence of smoking, and obesity is a consequence of eating fast food, drinking supersized Cokes, and getting in your truck to drive the 800 yards to church instead of walking.'<br /><br />In Singapore, where heterosexual sex is the main source of HIV infection but gay sex accounts for the fastest-rising source of reported cases, 'the gay community should be very worried', she tells The Sunday Times.<br /><br />'To say 'Oh, this isn't a gay problem' doesn't help reduce the stigma because in the end what you get is more disease.'<br /><br />However, she notes that Section 377A of Singapore's penal code, which criminalises sex between men, makes it more difficult for gay men to seek the information they need to protect themselves.<br /><br />Globally, the budget for Aids in developing countries has grown from a mere US$300 million (S$449 million) a year in 1996 to US$10 billion last year, but vast amounts of money are wasted because governments, for ideological or political reasons, are not focusing enough attention on the groups which need them most - gay men, sex workers and drug injectors.<br /><br />For example, the United States, which budgeted US$4.2 billion for HIV in developing countries this year, does not allow federal funds to be used on clean needles for drug injectors.<br /><br />Wastage also stems from the fact that many countries prioritise Aids treatment over other equally or more pressing health threats.<br /><br />'Why should someone with HIV get free treatment when someone with lung cancer doesn't? The reason that distortion exists is because there is a massive international lobby for free HIV treatment. So developing countries, where a big proportion of the health budget comes from donors - and Indonesia is a classic case - very often spend a big proportion of their health budget on HIV.'<br /><br />Asked about the provocative title of her book, she paid tribute to the transgender sex workers on the streets of Jakarta who provided her with the greatest insights after she went there seven years ago to work on HIV prevention.<br /><br />She mentions in particular Ms Ines Angela, a sex worker in Jakarta who pointed out that surveys on sex workers were skewed because researchers were interviewing the least active individuals.<br /><br />Ms Pisani relates, with a chuckle: 'She said, 'Any sex worker who is on the street talking to a research team is a sex worker who is not with a client... I'm never on a street corner, I'm with a client.'<br /><br />'And I was like...she's right. Oh dear.'<br /><br />After that, surveys on the sex workers were conducted through their internal hierarchies, with each district's leader gathering interviewees at her home in the daytime, when they were not working.<br /><br />The other reason for Ms Pisani's choice of title is somewhat more grim. The budget to fight HIV/Aids worldwide has ballooned almost disproportionately in relation to the number of people suffering from the infection. The number of people living with HIV rose by 38 per cent between 1996 and 2006, but spending on HIV in developing countries surged 2,900 per cent over the same period.<br /><br />This money, in turn, has attracted groups - some not entirely relevant to the cause - into vying for a piece of the pie.<br /><br />She reflects: 'After nearly 15 years in this ever-better funded industry, more and more money is sloshing around, and more non-governmental organisations, United Nations organisations and international organisations are jumping into the cause. You see people bending over backwards to get HIV money. In the Aids industry these days, we're all whores.'<br /><br />» Go to www.straitstimes.com for more on Ms Elizabeth Pisani.<br /><br />The Wisdom Of Whores. Bureaucrats, Brothels And The Business Of Aids, published by Granta, by Elizabeth Pisani, is on sale at $40.66 (with GST) at major bookstores<br /><br />This article was first published in The Sunday Times on Nov 9, 2008.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-6801078203542377772008-11-07T18:49:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:50:21.033+08:00Oogachaga's Upcoming Family Forum*Me & My Family<br /> <br />Apart or A Part?*<br /> <br />Family is home. Family is where we develop our sense of self.<br /> <br />Does that change if …<br /> <br />you are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender (GLBT)?<br /> <br />your loved one is gay?<br /> <br />you are GLBT and have children of your own?<br /> <br />Join us and our panelists for an afternoon of lively conversations. Hear what<br />family means to them and share with us what family means to you.<br /> <br />Date: 29 November 2008, Saturday <br />Time: 2.30pm – 5.00pm<br />Venue: OnePeople.sg @ 381 Toa Payoh Lorong 1 (5 mins walk from Braddell MRT)<br /> <br />Admission is free<br /> <br />Register now at events@oogachaga.com <events%40oogachaga.com> and bring a<br />family member or friend!<br /> <br />This forum is proudly brought to you by OC and facilitated by Leow Yangfa, a<br />social worker.<br /> <br />For map of the event venue, please visit<br />http://www.oogachaga.com/talk29112008.htmlUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-11077868756717068552008-11-07T12:33:00.001+08:002008-11-09T12:37:38.777+08:00365Gay: Singapore gays plan massive rally (Nov 7)(Singapore) Singapore’s LGBT community is planning a massive rally to celebrate gay pride and chastise the government for its tough stand on homosexuality.<br /><br />The event will mark a loosening of tight controls on public demonstrations at Speakers’ Corner in Hong Lim Park.<br /><br />The rally is the brainchild of Roy Tan, a gay man who works in the health care industry. Tan, 50, originally planned to hold the event next week, but postponed it until next year, saying there had been such large LGBT interest he would need more time to organize it. Tan also said that he will form a committee with a number of those people who have offered help.<br /><br />But he said that the event will be restricted to people from Singapore. Tan said that if foreigners were involved, it would require a police permit which might not be granted.<br /><br />He said he hopes to hold a pride march around the park and then have speakers who would press for the repeal of anti-gay laws in Singapore.<br /><br />Last October Singapore’s Parliament passed a sweeping revision of its penal law, eliminating sodomy as a crime for heterosexual couples but leaving in place provisions that could send gays to prison.<br /><br />Under the law, anyone engaging in same-sex sodomy could face two years in prison, although police say no one has been charged in recent times.<br /><br />Last August, Singapore banned a gay pride event, saying it ran counter to the city-state’s public morals.<br /><br />In addition, censors refused to allow an LGBT book reading event that was to have been part of the pride celebration. A human rights forum was blocked. And a photography exhibit of of gays and lesbians was closed by police hours before it was to officially open.<br /><br />The Media Development Authority balked at a book by author Ng Yi-Sheng about a young man’s fictional sexual adventures with older men including military officers and government officials.<br /><br />The authority said that the book went beyond good taste and decency and disparaged public officers.<br /><br />The human rights forum was to have featured Douglas Sanders, a professor emeritus in law at the University of British Columbia, Canada, and Thailand’s Chulalongkorn University.<br /><br />The forum, titled “Sexual Orientation in International Law: The Case of Asia,” was deemed contrary to public interest.<br /><br />The censorship board ordered the photo exhibition closed because it showed photos of gay men and women kissing. The board said that the show violated Singapore law because it promoted “a homosexual lifestyle.”<br /><br />Earlier this year, the government fined two television stations that showed gay content.<br /><br />One aired an episode of a home and decor series called “Find and Design” that featured a gay couple wanting to transform their game room into a new nursery for their adopted baby.<br /><br />The other ran a commercial that showed two lesbians kissing.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-50403838688797756562008-11-06T18:46:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:48:11.364+08:00ST: California bans gay marriage (Nov 6)LOS ANGELES - THOUSANDS of gay rights supporters took to the streets of Hollywood late on Wednesday outraged that California had voted to ban same-sex marriages.<br /><br />The historic presidential win of Mr Barack Obama, who promises to be far more socially liberal than his predecessor, was therefore a bitter-sweet moment for California's gay community as a simultaneous referendum went against them.<br /><br />Voters approved the constitutional amendment by a margin of 52.5 to 47.5 per cent, according to near complete results.<br /><br />Known as 'Proposition 8,' the proposal was trumpeted by conservative groups as the people's way of overturning the legalization of gay marriage back in May.<br /><br />For the gay community, however, it was a bitter pill to swallow.<br /><br />Angry crowds thronged the streets in central West Hollywood, the heart of Los Angeles' gay community, chanting slogans and waving signs.<br /><br />'Stop the hate in 2008!' went one chant. 'Keep religion out of my Constitution!' was another.<br /><br />Protestor Jason Louis wrote the words 'I am a victim of H-8' (H for Hate) on his bare chest.<br /><br />The referendum circumvents a California Supreme Court ruling in May that legalizes gay marriage by amending the state constitution to add the phrase, 'Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognised in California.'<br /><br />The court's May ruling overturned an earlier plebiscite in 2000, when 61 per cent of voters agreed marriage should be defined as only being between a man and a woman.<br /><br />Fearing that Proposition 8 could be approved, thousands of same-sex couples rushed to tie the knot since Jun, and especially in the last days.<br /><br />The ruling now leaves thousands of gay couples in a legal limbo.<br /><br />Those couples include some celebrity marriages such as comedienne Ellen DeGeneres who wed her long-time girlfriend Portia de Rossi in Aug.<br /><br />'I feel anger, I feel frustration,' Mr Louis, 34, told AFP. 'I just got married last Sunday, we did it two days before the Election Day because I knew that Yes on Prop 8 it could win. Now we don't know what is going to happen, but for sure it will be a long, long legal battle.'<br /><br />Police said at least 2,000 people gathered for the march, but the crowd continued to swell after that estimate. Protestors included families with children and clerics from progressive churches.<br /><br />A lesbian couple planned to file a new suit to prevent Proposition 8 from being implemented.<br /><br />'The new lawsuit will contain a new and controversial legal argument as to why Prop 8 is unconstitutional,' said their attorney Gloria Allred said.<br /><br />Japanese-American actor George Takei, who played Mr Sulu in the long-running series 'Star Trek' and who married his longtime partner Brad Altman in Sept, said his marriage would remain valid no matter what.<br /><br />'There's nothing in the language of Proposition 8 that says it's retroactive, so our marriage is going to be valid,' he told a local TV channel.<br /><br />'But what we're concerned about is the young people of the future.<br /><br />'Proposition 8 will eliminate in the constitution of the state their options of really being who they want to be.'<br /><br />Takei and Altman were the first couple to receive a marriage license in West Hollywood when California began issuing them to gay couples on Jun 17.<br /><br />Hollywood stars including Brad Pitt and Steven Spielberg as well as multinational companies such as Apple campaigned against the ban, with donations of up to US$100,000 (S$148,343).<br /><br />But supporters unleashed a flood of hard-hitting ads especially targeting the Hispanic community and its traditional Christian and family values.<br /><br />The Los Angeles Times reported some 18,000 same-sex couples married in the past four and a half months.<br /><br />Arizona and Florida also passed similar referendums by large margins on Tuesday, stating that marriage was the legal union between a man and a woman.<br /><br />The largest was in Florida where 62 per cent of voters approved the measure compared to 38 per cent against.<br /><br />In Arkansas, voters approved a ban on couples who live together without being married, whether gay or straight, from adopting or fostering children. -- AFPUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-70625426623860911462008-11-04T05:19:00.000+08:002008-11-09T05:20:41.236+08:00ST: Penang police raid gay parties (Nov 4)Nov 4, 2008<br />Penang police raid gay parties<br />GEORGE TOWN (Penang): Malaysian police broke up four gay parties over the weekend and nabbed 70 people, some of whom were caught literally with their pants down.<br /><br />Those detained included locals, Americans, Europeans and a Chinese national.<br /><br />Police, in a blitz to weed out vice activities in George Town and in Seberang Jaya last Saturday, stumbled upon the parties specially organised for the men.<br /><br />In the three-hour operation that started at 5.30pm, police raided a traditional massage parlour and a fitness centre in Midlands Park and two other fitness centres in Seberang Jaya.<br /><br />The raiding party seized pornography DVDs, gay magazines, lubrication jelly and boxes of condoms found on the premises.<br /><br />Police said the organisers had used legitimate businesses as their front to conduct the illicit activities in order to hoodwink the authorities.<br /><br />George Town Deputy Superintendent of Police Gan Kong Meng said they arrested 29 men, including a Chinese national, at the massage parlour and fitness centre here during the 8.30pm raid. Many of them were naked when police walked into the joints.<br /><br />The men, aged between 20 and 40, were arrested and questioned at the state police headquarters in Penang Road and were later released on bail.<br /><br />'Those caught will be charged with gross indecency,' said DSP Gan, adding that police had raided the massage parlour and fitness centre five times in the past.<br /><br />In Seberang Jaya, the police conducted the raid following public tip-offs and caught 41 suspects, including the Westerners.<br /><br />The suspects were taken to the Seberang Jaya district police headquarters and had their statements recorded before being released on police bail.<br /><br />Police are also looking for the owners of the two premises to prosecute them for allowing their premises to be used as vice dens.<br /><br />There are no laws against homosexuality in Malaysia but acts such as sodomy and oral sex are illegal.<br /><br />THE STAR/ASIA NEWS NETWORKUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-21801707258614791192008-11-03T18:41:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:43:46.127+08:00Sayoni Queer Women Survery 2008 ReportSayoni proudly presents Sayoni Queer Women Survey 2008 Report (Singapore).<br /><br />Abstract<br /><br />Objectives:<br /><br />1.To gain some perspective on the actual needs of queer women, and what we<br />can do about them<br /><br />2.To provide free and accessible information to researchers, and act as a<br />starting point for further research into the field<br /><br />3.To ameliorate the dire lack of information on queer women in Singapore.<br />Currently, there is no proper understanding of how the women's queer<br />community functions, other than biased and disjointed personal views.<br /><br />The survey is broken down into five main aspects. Questions in each category<br />are stream-lined and standardised for easy answering, by presenting most of<br />the questions as rating questions where possible.<br /><br />1. Introduction<br /><br />General background.<br /><br />2. Family, Friends and Work<br /><br />Questions on how out the respondent is in their various social circles, how<br />this group has reacted to the information, and the respondent's intention to<br />come out to that particular group.<br /><br />3. Personal<br /><br />Questions on a personal level relating to sexual orientation. Probes how the<br />respondents come to realise their sexuality, different aspects of personal<br />identity, and how their sexuality has affected them. Also includes<br />information on relationships of respondents.<br /><br />4. Financial<br /><br />Questions to ascertain the financial status of queer women as a community -<br />on income, occupation and industry, housing and car ownership.<br /><br />5. Feedback on Sayoni and the community<br /><br />Take note that the answers to these questions with the exception of two, are<br />not presented in this report as they are meant for internal feedback.<br /><br />This survey was not carried out with a null hypothesis in mind, and much of<br />the information contained in this report is processed descriptive<br />statistics. Where possible, averages and trends have been pre-computed, and<br />presented along with a broad analysis of the data. This year, the data is<br />presented in a much more visual format, as opposed to raw numbers in the<br />pilot run of 2006.<br /><br />In the report of 2006, the data was broken down across Age, Ethnicity and<br />Religion, as it is believed that these three different aspects affect the<br />average queer woman in her views and social situation with respect to her<br />sexuality. This year, due to the significant changes in methodology and<br />presentation, we have decided to omit the comparison by Ethnicity and<br />Religion, as the representation for minority ethnic groups is not high<br />enough to allow accurate comparisons.<br /><br />Download the report here:<br />http://www.sayoni.com/surveyreport/ccount/click.php?id=4<http://www.sayoni.com/surveyreport/Sayoni_Survey_Report_2008.pdf><br /><br />--<br />The Sayoni Admin Team<br />www.sayoni.com<br />To Empower Asian Queer WomenUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-7369105177466159282008-11-01T05:17:00.001+08:002008-11-09T05:18:32.227+08:00ST: Gay protest postponed (Nov 1)Nov 1, 2008<br />Gay protest postponed<br />Speakers' Corner event on Nov 15 postponed to cater to strong response<br />By Kor Kian Beng<br />SINGAPORE's first outdoor gay protest at Speakers' Corner in Hong Lim Park on Nov 15 has been postponed to early next year.<br /><br />Organiser Roy Tan, 50, a Singaporean who initiated the event, yesterday cited the overwhelming response from the gay community as a key reason for the date change.<br /><br />The event was being postponed 'to ensure that all interested parties - straight, gay and queer - have the opportunity to participate in this landmark occasion', he said in a statement e-mailed to the media.<br /><br />Many members of the gay community have expressed interest in taking part, he told The Straits Times when contacted.<br /><br />A number of those who are backing the event also want to help him organise it, said Mr Tan, who works in the health-care industry.<br /><br />An organising committee has now been set up.<br /><br />Said Mr Tan: 'We're postponing it so we can have more time to organise a better event.'<br /><br />He declined to comment on a new date, the number of interested participants and organisers, and whether there would be changes to the programme.<br /><br />More details will be released later, he said.<br /><br />Mr Tan registered with the National Parks Board (NParks) in September to stage the Nov 15 event.<br /><br />He will now let the Nov 15 date lapse and make a fresh application closer to the new date.<br /><br />When he first registered to stage the event, which he described as a GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual and transsexual) pride parade, he said it would feature speeches on gay rights.<br /><br />Participants would march around the park with placards to protest against Section 377A of the Penal Code, which criminalises homosexual sex. There was also to be a public forum on the difficulties that gay Singaporeans here face.<br /><br />Mr Tan said he was keeping the event as a Singaporeans-only activity. This was to avoid having to apply for a police permit, which is required if foreigners were to speak or participate in or organise activities at the park.<br /><br />With the Government moving to relax the rules at Speakers' Corner as of Sept 1, applicants need only register online with NParks before they speak or stage a demonstration.<br /><br />But they have to state the topic of their speech or demonstration, as issues such as race and religion remain out of bounds.<br /><br />kianbeng@sph.com.sgUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-13008187320861507272008-10-31T18:44:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:45:47.309+08:00Time: The Gay Mafia That's Redefining Politics (Oct 31)Friday, Oct. 31, 2008<br />The Gay Mafia That's Redefining Politics<br />By John Cloud / Beverly Hills<br /><br />A few weeks before Virginia's legislative elections in 2005, a researcher working on behalf of a clandestine group of wealthy, gay political donors telephoned a Virginia legislator named Adam Ebbin. Then, as now, Ebbin was the only openly gay member of the state's general assembly. The researcher wanted Ebbin's advice on how the men he represented could spend their considerable funds to help defeat anti-gay Virginia politicians.<br /><br />Ebbin, a Democrat who is now 44, was happy to oblige. (Full disclosure: in the mid-'90s, Ebbin and I knew each other briefly as colleagues; he sold ads for Washington City Paper, a weekly where I was a reporter.) Using Ebbin's expertise, the gay donors — none of whom live in Virginia — began contributing to certain candidates in the state. There were five benefactors: David Bohnett of Beverly Hills, Calif., who in 1999 sold the company he had co-founded, Geo-Cities, to Yahoo! in a deal worth $5 billion on the day it was announced; Timothy Gill of Denver, another tech multimillionaire; James Hormel of San Francisco, grandson of George, who founded the famous meat company; Jon Stryker of Kalamazoo, Mich., the billionaire grandson of the founder of medical-technology giant Stryker Corp.; and Henry van Ameringen, whose father Arnold Louis van Ameringen started a Manhattan-based import company that later became the mammoth International Flavors & Fragrances.<br /><br />The five men spent $138,000 in Virginia that autumn, according to state records compiled by the nonprofit Virginia Public Access Project. Of that, $48,000 went directly to the candidates Ebbin recommended. Ebbin got $45,000 for his PAC, the Virginia Progress Fund, so he could give to the candidates himself. Another $45,000 went to Equality Virginia, a gay-rights group that was putting money into many of the same races.<br /><br />On Election Day that year, the Virginia legislature stayed solidly in Republican hands; the Democratic Party netted just one seat. But that larger outcome masked an intriguing development: anti-gay conservatives had suffered considerably. For instance, in northern Virginia, a Democrat named Charles Caputo (who received $6,500 from Ebbin's PAC) had beaten a Christian youth minister, Chris Craddock, by an unexpectedly large margin, with a vote of 56% to 41%. Three other candidates critical of gays were also defeated, including delegate Richard Black, who had long opposed gay equality in Richmond. Black had had no single donation as large as the $20,000 that Ebbin's PAC gave his opponent. "This was my ninth election campaign, and it wasn't unusual to have homosexuals involved," says Black, who now practices law. "But it was different, certainly, in degree. There had not been a concerted influx of money from homosexuals as a group before."<br /><br />The group that donated the money to use against Black and the others is known as the Cabinet, although you won't find that name on a letterhead or even on the Internet. Aside from Bohnett, 52; Gill, 55; Hormel, 75; Stryker, 50; and Van Ameringen, 78, the other members of the Cabinet are Jonathan Lewis (49-year-old grandson of Joseph, co-founder of Progressive Insurance) and Linda Ketner, 58, heiress to the Food Lion fortune, who is running for Congress against GOP Representative Henry Brown Jr. of South Carolina.<br /><br />Ketner's is something of a long-shot bid — her district has been reliably Republican for years — but recently Congressional Quarterly described her "suddenly strong run" against Brown as "the biggest surprise" in this year's House races. Ketner, who was invited to join the all-male Cabinet as a way of diversifying it, declined to discuss her role in the group.<br /><br />Among gay activists, the Cabinet is revered as a kind of secret gay Super Friends, a homosexual justice league that can quietly swoop in wherever anti-gay candidates are threatening and finance victories for the good guys. Rumors abound in gay political circles about the group's recondite influence; some of the rumors are even true. For instance, the Cabinet met in California last year with two sitting governors, Brian Schweitzer of Montana and Kathleen Sebelius of Kansas, both Democrats; political advisers who work for the Cabinet met with a third Democratic governor, Wisconsin's Jim Doyle. The Cabinet has also funded a secretive organization called the Movement Advancement Project (MAP), which a veteran lesbian activist describes as the "Gay IRS." MAP keeps tabs on the major gay organizations to make sure they are operating efficiently. The October 2008 MAP report notes, for example, that the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force fails to meet Better Business Bureau standards for limiting overhead expenses.<br /><br />According to the online databases Opensecrets.org and Followthemoney.org, the seven members of the Cabinet have spent at least $7.8 million on political races since the beginning of 2004, although their true level of giving is doubtless far higher, since Followthemoney.org — which is run by the nonpartisan National Institute on Money in State Politics — does not capture all contributions to PACs (for instance, the Cabinet money that went to Ebbin's PAC in 2005 doesn't show up on the website). The Cabinet spends at least as much each election cycle as does the PAC run by the Human Rights Campaign, the world's largest gay political group. And yet the Cabinet has operated in stealth, without accountability from watchdogs. (The Cabinet does not subject itself to MAP analysis.)<br /><br />Cabinet spending shows up in races all over the country where pro-gay candidates have a good shot. For instance, Bohnett, Gill and Van Ameringen have given $143,000 this year to New York Democrats, who are within two seats of controlling the state senate. A Democratic New York legislature would likely approve equal marriage rights.<br /><br />The Cabinet's Gill and Stryker have seen their money achieve remarkable results in their respective states, Colorado and Michigan. Stateline.org (a project of the Pew Charitable Trusts) reported that in 2006, Stryker gave "at least $6.4 million to candidates or political committees in at least a dozen states, including Michigan, where he can boast that Democrats gained a majority in the state house for the first time in 12 years." Some Cabinet members also donated tens of thousands of dollars in certain Iowa and New Hampshire races in 2006, when Democrats regained control of both states' legislatures. Those states' Democratic majorities now ensure that, among other things, efforts to amend the Iowa and New Hampshire constitutions to ban same-sex marriage will fail.<br /><br />And yet the Cabinet is noteworthy not only because its treasure begets political influence but also because its very existence shows how dramatically the culture wars — and liberal politics as a whole — have changed in the past decade. Next summer gays will celebrate the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall riots, the 1969 Manhattan demonstrations that began when cross-dressers angry about police raids at the Stonewall bar began throwing bottles and punches. Today, though, the street movement is basically defunct. And increasingly, the center of gay power is moving out from Washington toward the interior — toward powerful foundations like those run by Stryker in Kalamazoo and Gill in Denver. Since the beginning of 2001, Stryker's foundation, which is called Arcus and has offices in both the U.S. and the U.K., has given away $67 million, about three-quarters to gays and about one-quarter to apes. (Stryker, who got a pet monkey as a gift when he was young, is a major donor to the conservation of ape habitats.)<br /><br />The Cabinet is emblematic of a larger shift on the left since 2004 in the direction of big-money politics, a shift most clearly seen in Barack Obama's refusal of public financing for his campaign. The Cabinet is only one of several flush, members-only liberal groups that have formed since 2004, the most famous (and richest) being the Democracy Alliance, whose sponsors include billionaires George Soros, Peter Lewis (father of Cabinet member Jonathan) and Pat Stryker (sister of Cabinet member Jon).<br /><br />That raises questions: What does a civil rights movement look like in an era of massive wealth? Can you still inspire a grass-roots movement when all the street troops know that the billionaires can just write bigger checks? And is it possible that the left has become a movement as coldly obsessed with money as it always assumed the right was?<br /><br />Gays may see the cabinet as powerful, almost numinous, but its own members see themselves as largely unorganized and highly independent. "It's a group of people who like and respect each other and their opinions," Ray Mulliner, a longtime Hormel adviser, told me recently. "It's nothing more than like-minded donors getting together to share strategies." When I mentioned that similar organizations on the right had received press scrutiny — I was thinking of the Arlington Group, a coalition of movement conservatives — Mulliner angrily rejected the comparison: "You have no reason to be curious about this. You're going to write a piece that's going to start a fire that needs to get put out, and it's going to cost a lot of money to put it out," he said.<br /><br />The Cabinet first came together three or four years ago, according to Van Ameringen, as a "meeting place" for donors who wanted to use their money with greater strategic acumen. Gill got the idea for the group after he and Lewis attended a Democracy Alliance meeting. The donors felt they could accomplish more for gays if they shared information rather than operate as "silo" givers. Some members were frustrated that the established gay movement in Washington hadn't made greater progress in a society rapidly coming to see homosexuality as a mere variation rather than a moral degeneration.<br /><br />Today it's difficult to find a gay organization that has not enjoyed the Cabinet's largesse. In 2007, for example, Stryker's Arcus Foundation gave away $11.8 million as part of its Gay and Lesbian Program. The money reached both big-name groups like the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (which got half a million dollars) and little organizations like the Actors Theatre Co. of Grand Rapids, Mich., which got $25,000 to produce a play called Seven Passages: The Story of Gay Christians.<br /><br />The web of connections among the Cabinet members is complex. All the other members have donated the maximum amount allowed to Ketner's congressional campaign. Gill, Lewis and Stryker employ political advisers — respectively, Denver attorney Ted Trimpa; Paul Yandura, who worked in the Clinton White House's political-affairs office; and Lisa Turner, a former political director for the Democratic Legislative Campaign Committee — who regularly speak with one another and with others who work for Cabinet members.<br /><br />There's nothing illegal about the Cabinet's coordination of its members' giving, according to Lawrence Noble, campaign-finance expert with the Washington-based firm Skadden, Arps. The contributions would be illegal only if the members agreed to give up control of their donations entirely or coordinated them directly with a campaign. There's no evidence of either; several people associated with the Cabinet made clear that its members make their donations without anyone's review. And yet as the National Review's Byron York has pointed out, Americans were horrified to learn during Watergate that Richard Nixon's friend Clement Stone had donated an outrageous $2 million in cash to the President's campaign. Cabinet members have spent at least five times that amount in various races in the past four years; the Soros-backed Democracy Alliance has spent probably 50 times that amount.<br /><br />Still, it's hard to argue that the left in general and gays in particular should sit on their hands while foes outspend them. Strategically, the Cabinet makes sense; most people who defend its secrecy offer a Machiavellian understanding of ends and means. "I could lose a lot of sleep about it, and I do wonder why they have abandoned [gay] organizations that have a 35-year track record in order to have their own operations," says a seasoned Washington gay activist. "But if that's the way the rules of the game are being played, I need to maneuver within what the realities are."<br /><br />The larger question is what role wealthy groups like the Cabinet will have in reshaping the politics of the left. There's been a great deal of (largely self-congratulatory) talk among liberals about the progressive movement's success in using new technologies to harness the netroots, to use the fashionable liberal argot. But there has been less reflection about what impact the great gobs of Sorosian money will have on the movement. Michael Fleming, a Los Angeles political macher who advises Cabinet member Bohnett, worries that rank-and-file gay people — the ones who might have picked up a rock at Stonewall — are increasingly relying on billionaires to cut checks. "Where is the outrage?" he asks.<br /><br />The answer is that outrage has given way to smugness, the kind of self-satisfaction conservatives displayed after electoral successes in 1980 and 1994. Groups like the Cabinet and the Democracy Alliance suggest a new kind of moneyed progressivism, one that shows little of the class discontent that animated earlier strains of leftist thought. Is this a sign of maturation — throwing off radical excesses — or capitulation, a surrendering to the idea that efforts to reduce the power of money in our democracy have failed? Probably a little of both.<br /><br />For its part, the Cabinet seems poised to prod the gay movement into being sleeker, faster, more tactical. When the remaining veterans of Stonewall march down Fifth Avenue next summer, those shimmeringly romantic, slightly foolish days of 1969 will have never seemed so distant.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-77577034147804433992008-10-30T01:02:00.001+08:002008-11-02T01:03:13.105+08:00TNP: HIV Postive? You Deserve It (Oct 30)'HIV-positive? You deserve it'<br /><br />Infected man's mum slams him when he reveals condition. He now hides it from friends and colleagues.<br /><br />Sat, Nov 01, 2008<br />The New Paper<br /><br />By Benson Ang<br /><br />HE is gay and HIV-positive.<br /><br />In 2004, one evening during dinner, he broke the news to his family. His mother and elder brother were present.<br /><br />He was advised by his doctor to break the news to his family so that they could react appropriately in case of an emergency.<br /><br />James (not his real name), 38, said he was shocked by their reaction at the dinner table.<br /><br />His dejected mother, in her 70s, first stared at him and asked: 'How did this happen?<br /><br />He replied: 'Through sex.'<br /><br />She shot back: 'Then, you've only yourself to blame.'<br /><br />His brother kept silent throughout the conversation.<br /><br />There was a deafening silence for the rest of the dinner, interrupted only by his mother's questions regarding the illness.<br /><br />Frightened<br /><br />From then on, his family members were so frightened of the virus that they even washed and stored the plates and utensils he used separately and kept them in a different place.<br /><br />James, who works in the service industry, said: 'I know that sharing cutlery cannot transmit the virus. But because they had not much knowledge of this, I just played along to reassure them.'<br /><br />This less-accepting attitude towards HIV-positive people was revealed in a recent Health Promotion Board (HPB) survey. This is the first large population-based survey of its kind, according to HPB.<br /><br />Since the first HIV case in Singapore was detected in 1985, only one person has dared to come out as HIV-positive. The late Paddy Chew went public with his condition in 1998 and eventually died in 1999.<br /><br />Which goes on to show that even after 10 years, the stigma associated with HIV patients still hasn't gone away.<br /><br />Said James, who works in the service industry: 'It was a double whammy - telling them that I was gay and HIV positive.<br /><br />'I think my mum was just devastated and traumatised. It took several months before she came around to accepting my condition.'<br /><br />A year later, he moved out of his family flat to his own three-room flat.<br /><br />It took his family about two years to come to terms with the illness and be comfortable with mixing their cutlery with his.<br /><br />His mother began talking to him more frequently and things went back to normal.<br /><br />He said he tested positive for HIV in 1996 through unprotected sex with a former lover.<br /><br />So how did he manage to keep this secret for eight years? He said: 'This is nothing. People have kept secrets for their whole lifetime.'<br /><br />The only people who know about his illness are his family, partner, and the HIV-positive people he came to know through an Action for Aids (AfA) support group. James joined the group in 2002 when he started on his medication.<br /><br />Why did he take six years to start on medication when he knew he was already HIV positive?<br /><br />He said: 'I felt healthy and was ignorant of the disease at that time.<br /><br />(Page 1 of 2)<br /><br />'It was only when I had a chest infection in 2002 that reality hit me.'<br /><br />He said he has not revealed his condition to any of his friends and colleagues, despite having lived with HIV for 12 years.<br /><br />He said: 'Singapore society is still very unaccepting of gay people, let alone those with HIV.'<br /><br />So why isn't he revealing his status?<br /><br />He says he is just being 'practical', since in Singapore, there are no laws protecting HIV-positive people from discrimination by their employers.<br /><br />This was verified by three lawyers The New Paper spoke to.<br /><br />James said that employers who may not know much about HIV may just terminate such employees out of fear.<br /><br />He claimed that some of his HIV-positive friends told their bosses about their condition, and ended up being sacked 'for the minutest reason'.<br /><br />He takes anti-retroviral drugs at home instead: twice daily - in the mornings and evenings - to combat the spread of the virus.<br /><br />He does not have full-blown Aids, but sometimes experiences side effects from his medication, such as nausea, diarrhoea and skin problems.<br /><br />And although he shops, eats, sings karaoke and goes to the movies with his HIV-negative friends, most of whom are gay men, none know about his condition.<br /><br />James said: 'I haven't got the guts to tell them. I just act buat-bodoh (blur) when the subject comes up, because I don't know if they can really accept it or not.<br /><br />'I just don't see the need to tell them, especially since news tends to have a roll-on effect.'<br /><br />James suspects that he contracted the disease through unprotected sex with a former lover.<br /><br />'But I can't be sure, so I don't want to point fingers.'<br /><br />A few months later, he became 'very sick', and had to be hospitalised for six days.<br /><br />A blood test confirmed his HIV status.<br /><br />Life goes on<br /><br />'At first, I felt down. But life goes on.'<br /><br />He says he does not want to 'perpetuate the cycle' with his current partner of three years, who is HIV-negative. They use condoms.<br /><br />Prior to sharing his secret, James said he asked his partner leading questions to see how accepting the latter was of people with HIV.<br /><br />James revealed the truth only when he felt it was safe, a few months into the relationship.<br /><br />James said: 'My partner cried. But two weeks later, he told me, 'No worries. We will go through it together.'<br /><br />'This made life much easier.'<br /><br />Added James: 'I'll never have a job again if I were to come out publicly in Singapore. I'll have more to lose.'<br /><br />This story was first published in The New Paper on Oct 30, 2008.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-44302541431973932582008-10-28T18:38:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:41:39.120+08:00Pelangi Pride Centre presents "The Celluloid Closet" and "Sex Change Soldier"Details at a Glance<br /><br />Event: Screening of "The Celluloid Closet" and "Sex Change Soldier"<br />Date: Saturday, 08 Nov 2008 (081108)<br />Time: 4pm<br />Cost per person: $6 (cost of 2 drinks and finger food)<br />Venue: Pelangi Pride Centre<br />http://www.pelangipridecentre.org/contact/contact.htm<br /><br />RSVP - This event is by invitation only.<br />LIMITED to only 30 pax, prior registration is required.<br />For an invite - please email [pelangipridecentre at yahoo dot com]<br />with your name (in full), contact number, the name/s of your guests.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-61818200065420890352008-10-27T18:30:00.000+08:002008-11-08T18:32:17.802+08:00AFP: Malaysian religious council issues ban on lesbian sex (Oct 27)Malaysian religious council issues ban on lesbian sex<br /><br />22 hours ago<br /><br />KUALA LUMPUR (AFP) — One of Malaysia's highest Islamic bodies has<br />banned females from dressing or behaving like men and engaging in<br />lesbian sex, saying it was forbidden by the religion.<br /><br />The National Fatwa Council late Thursday issued its ruling following a<br />two-day meeting that discussed recent cases of young women apparently<br />behaving like men and exhibiting homosexual tendencies, state news<br />agency Bernama reported.<br /><br />Council chairman Abdul Shukor Husin told Bernama many young women<br />admired the way men dress, behave and socialise, violating human<br />nature and denying their femininity.<br /><br />"It is unacceptable to see women who love the male lifestyle including<br />dressing in the clothes men wear," Abdul Shukor was quoted as saying.<br /><br />"(Masculine behaviour) becomes clearer when they start to have sex<br />with someone of the same gender, that is woman and woman," he said.<br /><br />"In view of this, the National Fatwa Council which met today have<br />decided and taken the stand that such acts are forbidden and banned,"<br />he said.<br /><br />Male homosexuality, considered against the order of nature, is illegal<br />in Malaysia but lawyers say female homosexuality is technically<br />permissible as there are no provisions for it under the law.<br /><br />The Fatwa Council does not have jurisdiction in civil law, but the<br />ruling appears to be an attempt to push female homosexuality towards<br />illegality.<br /><br />Islam is the official religion of Malaysia, where more than 60 percent<br />of its 27 million people are Muslim Malays who practice a conservative<br />brand of the religion.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-51598269393085803192008-10-25T17:54:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:56:41.284+08:00ST: Islamic clerics issue fatwa on tomboys (Oct 25)Oct 25, 2008<br />Islamic clerics issue fatwa on tomboys<br />KUALA LUMPUR: Malaysia's main body of Islamic clerics has issued an<br />edict banning tomboys in the Muslim-majority country, ruling that<br />girls who act like boys violate the tenets of Islam, an official said<br />yesterday.<br /><br />At a meeting on Thursday in northern Malaysia, the National Fatwa<br />Council forbade girls to behave or dress like boys, said Perak mufti<br />Harussani Idris Zakaria.<br /><br />He said the council's ruling was not legally binding because it has<br />not been passed into law, but that tomboys should be banned because<br />their actions are immoral.<br /><br />'It doesn't matter if it's a law or not. When it's wrong, it's wrong.<br />It is a sin,' he said. 'Tomboy (behaviour) is forbidden in Islam.'<br /><br />Under the edict, girls are forbidden to sport short hair and dress,<br />walk and act like boys, he said. Boys should also not act like girls,<br />he said.<br /><br />'They must respect God. God created them as boys, they must behave<br />like boys. God created them as girls, they must act like girls,' he said.<br /><br />Council chairman Abdul Shukor Husin said the ruling was prompted by<br />recent cases of young women behaving like men and indulging in<br />homosexual behaviour, according to the national news agency Bernama.<br />He did not elaborate.<br /><br />A well-known Malaysian Muslim actress caused an uproar last year when<br />she shaved her head bald for a film called Muallaf (The Convert).<br /><br />Mr Harussani and other muftis urged Muslims not to watch the movie,<br />saying that the actress had violated Islam by making herself look like<br />a man.<br /><br />It was not immediately clear what kind of punishment awaited those who<br />violate the tomboy edict, or fatwa.<br /><br />ASSOCIATED PRESSUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-25028378201705746592008-10-25T17:53:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:54:55.908+08:00Today Weekend: Malaysian clerics issue edict to ban tomboys (Oct 25)M'sian clerics issue edict to ban tomboys<br /><br />Weekend • October 25, 2008<br /><br />KUALA LUMPUR — Malaysia's main body of Islamic clerics has issued an<br />edict banning tomboys in the Muslim-majority country, ruling that<br />girls who act like boys violate the tenets of Islam, an official said<br />on Friday.<br /><br />The National Fatwa Council forbade the practice of girls behaving or<br />dressing like boys during a meeting on Thursday in northern Malaysia,<br />said Mr Harussani Idris Zakaria, the mufti of northern Perak state,<br />who attended the gathering.<br /><br />He said an increasing number of Malaysian girls behave like tomboys<br />and that some of them engage in homosexuality. Homosexuality is not<br />explicitly banned in Malaysia, but it is effectively illegal under a<br />law that prohibits sex acts "against the order of nature".<br /><br />Mr Harussani said the council's ruling was not legally binding because<br />it has not been passed into law, but that tomboys should be banned<br />because their actions are immoral.<br /><br />"It doesn't matter if it's a law or not. When it's wrong, it's wrong.<br />It is a sin,"Mr Harussani told AP. "Tomboy (behaviour) is forbidden in<br />Islam."<br /><br />Under the edict, or "fatwa", girls are forbidden to sport short hair<br />and dress, walk and act like boys, Mr Harussani said.<br /><br />Boys should also not act like girls, he said. "They must respect God.<br />God created them as boys, they must behave like boys," he said.<br /><br />Council chairman Abdul Shukor Husin said the ruling was prompted by<br />recent cases of young women behaving like men and indulging in<br />homosexuality, according to the Bernama news agency. APUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-66241514819325016342008-10-25T07:10:00.000+08:002008-11-02T00:12:00.164+08:00HIV/AIDS Talk at Kampong Kapor Methodist Church<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_57j0N0JGDNw/SQx_ndiDwZI/AAAAAAAAAHw/H3mVFyF5tIU/s1600-h/Bulletin~Churches+Living+With+AIDS+%5BKKMC%5D.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 230px; height: 163px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_57j0N0JGDNw/SQx_ndiDwZI/AAAAAAAAAHw/H3mVFyF5tIU/s400/Bulletin~Churches+Living+With+AIDS+%5BKKMC%5D.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5263722380408373650" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-50831431376447913662008-10-20T10:32:00.002+08:002008-10-30T10:36:27.420+08:00Women who Love Women Documentary Now Online!If you missed the screenings at Pelangi Pride Centre, Singapore International Film Festival and Sinema, here's your chance to watch it!<br /><br />Video at <a href="http://womenwholovewomensingapore.blogspot.com">womenwholovewomensingapore.blogspot.com</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-753029810708731092008-10-10T17:49:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:51:48.380+08:00Boston Globe: Connecticut Supreme Court legalises same-sex marriage (Oct 10)The Boston Globe<br />10 October 2008<br /><br />Connecticut Supreme Court legalizes same-sex marriage<br /><br />By Michael Levenson and Andrew Ryan, Globe Staff<br /><br />Connecticut became the third state to legalize same-sex marriage today<br />in a 4-3 decision by the state Supreme Court.<br /><br />In an 85-page decision issued at 11:30 a.m., the court struck down a<br />law barring same-sex marriage, ruling that the state had "failed to<br />establish adequate reason to justify the statutory ban."<br /><br />The justices noted in the majority opinion that they recognized "as<br />the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court did in Goodridge v. Dept. of<br />Public Health … that 'our decision marks a change in the history of<br />our marriage law.' "<br /><br />The case, Kerrigan v. the state Commissioner of Public Health, was<br />brought by eight same-sex couples who were denied marriage licenses by<br />the Madison town clerk. They argued that the state's civil union law<br />was discriminatory and unconstitutional because it established a<br />separate and therefore inherently unequal institution for a minority<br />group. Citing equal protection under the law, the state Supreme Court<br />agreed.<br /><br />"In accordance with these state constitutional requirements, same sex<br />couples cannot be denied the freedom to marry," said the majority<br />opinion, which was written by Justice Richard N. Palmer.<br /><br />State Senator Andrew J. McDonald, cochairman of the state Assembly's<br />Judiciary Committee, said he believes that gay couples will be allowed<br />to marry in 20 days, barring attempts by opponents to delay the ruling<br />with procedural maneuvers. He said he expects the Assembly to update<br />the state's marriage laws when members reconvene in January, without<br />much opposition.<br /><br />"I continue to expect a bipartisan effort to eradicate any remaining<br />vestiges of discrimination," McDonald said, hailing the ruling as a<br />"dramatic reaffirmation of Connecticut's commitment to civil rights<br />and equality for all of her citizens."<br /><br />"The court has seen through many of the diversionary arguments of our<br />opponents," McDonald said, "and has firmly established that<br />discrimination in any context and in any form is unacceptable and<br />unconstitutional."<br /><br />Peter J. Wolfgang, executive director of the Family Institute of<br />Connecticut, which opposes same-sex marriage, blasted the ruling.<br /><br />"The decision is an outrage," Wolfgang said in a telephone interview.<br />"It is essentially a handful of judges acting as if they were rogue<br />masters usurping the democratic process in Connecticut and radically<br />redefining marriage by judicial fiat."<br /><br />Wolfgang said that "our only shot" to stop same-sex marriage is to<br />push for passage of a ballot question that will appear before<br />Connecticut voters next month.<br /><br />Connecticut Governor M. Jodi Rell said in a statement that she would<br />abide by the decision even though she disagreed with the court because<br />of her belief that "marriage is the union of a man and a woman."<br /><br />"The Supreme Court has spoken," Rell said. "I do not believe their<br />voice reflects the majority of the people of Connecticut. However, I<br />am also firmly convinced that attempts to reverse this decision --<br />either legislatively or by amending the state Constitution – will not<br />meet with success."<br /><br />Connecticut joins California and Massachusetts, which became the first<br />state to allow same-sex marriage in 2004.<br /><br />In a scathing 25-page dissenting opinion today, Justice Peter T.<br />Zarella wrote that "there is no fundamental right to same sex marriage."<br /><br />"The ancient definition of marriage as the union of one man and one<br />woman has its basis in biology, not bigotry," Zarella wrote. "If the<br />state no longer has an interest in the regulation of procreation, then<br />that is a decision for the legislature or the people of the state and<br />not this court."<br /><br />In a dissenting opinion written by Justice David M. Borden and signed<br />by Justice Christine S. Vertefeuille, the judges wrote that, contrary<br />to arguments made by the plaintiffs, Connecticut's civil union law is<br />not discriminatory.<br /><br />"The development of the law in this state dealing with sexual<br />orientation demonstrates that the legislature had no intention, in<br />passing the civil union statute, to encourage discrimination against<br />or to stigmatize homosexuals," the judges wrote. "On the contrary,<br />that history supports the conclusion that the legislature has been<br />working toward the eventual passage of a gay marriage bill, and that<br />the civil union statute was an important step in that process."<br /><br />In 2005, Connecticut became the first state to establish civil unions<br />without a court order, but that measure did not end the same-sex<br />marriage debate. The eight gay couples who were denied licenses sued<br />the state Department of Public Health, which oversees marriage<br />registrations.<br /><br />Following the governor's lead, there appeared to be little appetite in<br />the Assembly to fight the ruling.<br /><br />State Senate Minority Leader John McKinney, a Republican of Fairfield,<br />issued a statement today saying: "While I believe these decisions are<br />better left to elected representatives, it is ultimately the province<br />of the State Supreme Court to interpret our constitution. The Court<br />carried out that responsibility today and ruled that the institution<br />of marriage in Connecticut must include same-sex couples. Whether<br />people agree or disagree, we all need to respect the Court's decision<br />and abide by the ruling."<br /><br />At the Family Institute of Connecticut, Wolfgang said that next<br />month's ballot question asked voters whether the state should hold its<br />first constitutional convention in 40 years. If the measure passes,<br />Wolfgang said, activists opposed to gay marriage will press the<br />Legislature to pass a constitutional amendment that would define<br />marriage as the union of one man and one woman. The measure would then<br />need approval from the voters, and the soonest it could be ratified<br />would be two years, he said.<br /><br />"Our only shot is to get a yes vote on Election Day," Wolfgang said.<br />"That is our one opportunity to let people have the same remedy here<br />in Connecticut as they have out in California," where voters are also<br />scheduled to take up a ballot amendment next month that would ban<br />same-sex marriage.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-71163163790917697372008-10-09T17:05:00.001+08:002008-11-08T17:06:25.307+08:00Herstory Presents "Do You Know the Lyrics" (Oct 9)LOCATION : St James Power Station<br />3 Sentosa Gateway Singapore 098544<br />DATE : 9 Oct 2008<br />TIME : 9pm - 3am<br /><br />Herstory- DO YOU KNOW THE LYRICS?<br />@The Boiler Room<br />Herstory presents the first game show - DO YOU KNOW THE LYRICS? 6 Bold contestants take centrestage at The Boiler Room to challenge for $500 worth of CASH & Prizes. Come & support the contestants and watch them battle it out along side with Gino & Soul Kool Band. Semi Final round on 9 October at 11pm. See you @The Boiler Room!<br />Party Theme: Hip Hop & Funky!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-35104062732650361982008-10-08T17:45:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:46:12.048+08:00Women's Nite 25th October 2008: So, what do you do?You've heard such arguments before. You've heard that you:<br />grew up without a father figure<br />hate men<br />and threaten family values.<br /><br />Ever felt the urge to fight such fallacies but don't know how? Come join us<br />at Women's Nite as we find out how to set the record straight.<br /><br />***<br />Women's Nite October 2008<br />Saturday 25th October, 7pm<br />Venue (in Singapore) will be disclosed upon registration.<br /><br />Limited to 30 invites, so please register with your full name, contact<br />number, the full name/s of your guests, if any, and the type of halal food<br />or drink you would be contributing to the potluck.<br /><br />Although Women's Nite is open to women of all orientations, please let us<br />know if you are straight, or are bringing along straight guests, so that we<br />can be sensitive to the needs of all women present.<br /><br />Please send your details to women.snite@gmail.com [women dot snite at gmail<br />dot com]<br /><br />Registration closes at midnight 24th October 2008<br /><br />***<br /><br />About Women's Nite<br /><br />Women's Nite provides a safe, neutral and alcohol-free space for lesbians<br />and bisexual women in Singapore to discuss the issues relevant to their<br />lives.<br /><br />The event, held on the last Saturday of every month, was started in December<br />2003. Over a potluck dinner, we hold discussions on wide ranging topics like<br />self acceptance, homophobia, relationships and identity. We also invite<br />special guests to field questions on legal rights and sexual health, and<br />conduct art and dance therapy nights.<br /><br />To check out the past months' events, or find out more, please go to<br />http://women_snite.livejournal.com<br />To get email updates on each month's event, please visit<br /><http://groups.yahoo.com/group/women_>http://groups.yahoo.com/group/<br />women_snite to join our mailing list.<br /><br />As far as possible, we would like to keep this space commercial free. To<br />advertise events and projects, please email us at<br />women.snite@gmail.com<women.snite%40gmail.com>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-80673390936430846652008-10-07T17:47:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:49:18.914+08:00Today: Murder charge reduced against those in Orchard Towers brawl (Oct 7)Murder charge reduced against those in Orchard Towers brawl<br />07 October 2008 2324 hrs (SST)<br />http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/381036/1/.html<br /> <br /> <br />SINGAPORE: It was a night of revelry, as six friends – all gang<br />members aged from 17 to 28 – gathered at a pub in Orchard Towers on<br />November 23, 2007 to celebrate a birthday.<br /> <br />But the gathering ended in tragedy when a brawl broke out, and by 6am,<br />a 37-year-old stranger was pronounced dead after being kicked and<br />punched by the six friends.<br /> <br />The sextet – namely Ahmad Nur Helmy, Muhammed Ridhwan Mohammed Roslan,<br />Helmi Abdul Rahim, Ho Ching Boon, Lai Chee Kuen and Muhammed Suffian<br />Zainal – were collared in a matter of days after the incident, and<br />charged with the murder of Mr Suhaimi Sulong.<br /> <br />On Tuesday, they appeared at the Subordinate Court and pleaded guilty,<br />but to a lesser charge – voluntarily causing grievous hurt.<br /> <br />The charges were probably downgraded because the attack was not<br />premeditated, explained one lawyer.<br /> <br />With friends and family crowding the packed courtroom, all six<br />remained emotionless even as Deputy Public-Prosecutor (DPP) Samuel<br />Chua unveiled the gruesome details of the attack on Mr Suhaimi.<br /> <br />The fight took place at around 5am near Brown Sugar, a pub on the<br />second floor. According to court documents, the fracas began when Ho,<br />18, and Lai, who at 17 was underaged, left the pub after they spotted<br />police officers performing checks.<br /> <br />While they were waiting outside the pub for their friends to turn up,<br />Mr Suhaimi approached the duo and began making lewd comments and<br />offering sexual services. The teenagers decided to ignore him and head<br />back to the club.<br /> <br />At about 4am, Mr Suhaimi approached Ahmad Nur Helmy – the birthday boy<br />– while he was in the toilet, exposing himself to the 20-year-old in<br />the process. Angered, Ahmad summoned his friends and they confronted<br />the victim.<br /> <br />Eyewitnesses said the group began chasing after Mr Suhaimi while<br />shouting "jangan lari", which meant "don't run" in Malay. They also<br />asked Mr Suhaimi if he was a homosexual.<br /> <br />But when he didn't answer and tried to flee, Ahmad grabbed the<br />victim's T-shirt and began kicking and punching him.<br /> <br />Although the rest initially tried to break up the fight, they<br />eventually joined the fray and began throwing a volley of kicks on Mr<br />Suhaimi.<br /> <br />They then dragged Mr Suhaimi down to the first-floor entrance and<br />threw him into a taxi, court documents said.<br /> <br />By then, the victim was motionless and bloodied from the attack. He<br />had also sustained head injuries and was taken unconscious to the<br />Singapore General Hospital by ambulance.<br /> <br />The victim was pronounced dead at 6.02am and an autopsy later revealed<br />that he had died from blunt force injuries to his head and neck.<br /> <br />Over the next few days, police arrested his attackers. On November 27,<br />Helmi Abdul Rahim, 28, surrendered himself to the authorities.<br /> <br />The six men, all out on bail, are due to appear in court on October 28<br />for sentencing. All six face imprisonment for a term which may extend<br />to 10 years, and they may also be fined or caned.<br /> <br /> <br />- TODAY/soUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-75499762440549546652008-10-05T17:22:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:25:17.310+08:00Today: 'V' for Victory (Oct 5)`V' for victory<br />A lively, comedic takeon a quiet classic:<br />Mayo Martin<br />mayo@mediacorp.com.sg<br /><br /><br />YOU'VE seen one, you've seen them all, the saying goes. Not so with<br />this version ofThe Vagina Monologues (TVM).<br /><br />Despite this reviewer's initial doubts on the wisdom of choosing an<br />arguably over-exposed piece as an inaugural production for new<br />theatre company Zebra Crossing, director Loretta Chen has admirably<br />eschewed conventions for a unique take on TVM (which is not an easy<br />thing considering how notoriously hands-on the playwright Eve Ensler<br />is).<br /><br />Instead of three performers, there are nine. Sombre and minimalist?<br />No, thank you, we're having fun.<br /><br />Hence, monologues are shuffled around, public service announcements<br />flashed onscreen along with video interviews of three prominent<br />theatre personalities on motherhood, a clinical "vagina workshop" is<br />re-imagined as an army bootcamp led by a hyperactive drill sergeant<br />with a French accent, shrill "schoolgirls" descend on the audience<br />waving their (unused) sanitary napkins, and, seemingly out of<br />nowhere, someone actually does a sexy pole dance. Naughty,<br />naughty ...<br /><br />Barring uneven scene transitions, (opening night jitters, most<br />likely) TVM was without a doubt a lively theatrical ride. There was<br />a conscious effort to localise the experience, with phrases in<br />Tamil, Malay and Chinese dialects thrown around.<br /><br />That said, the flashy approach tends to occasionally distract,<br />diffusing some of the more intimate, disturbing moments of what is<br />by nature a confessional piece of text.<br /><br />Despite a few over-the-top moments, new talent Eleine Ng showed a<br />flair for the comedic with her scene depicting the various ways of<br />moaning.<br /><br />Soul singer Asha Edmund's own spiels on, er, hair "down there" and<br />how to pronounced "c**t" were tight and snappy. Transsexual Elnina<br />recounting a transformative experience was a bit too dramatic but<br />intense, nevertheless.<br /><br />My favourite was veteran actress Loke Loo Pin deadpanning her way<br />through a monologue as a dignified old lady recounting her first<br />sexual awakening. Too shy to even say the word "vagina", she flashes<br />a "V" sign instead — which could very well stand for the<br />word "victory", too.<br /><br />While Chen's approach was a little too much for a play whose power<br />lies in the intimacy that monologues offer, we're inclined to give<br />it a "V" sign for being fun and, more important, fresh.<br /><br />The Vagina Monologues runs until Oct 12,8pm, at Drama Centre<br />Theatre,National Library. With 3pm matinees.Tickets from $17 to $57<br />at Sistic. Rating: R18.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-23261553652637775472008-10-04T17:20:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:22:16.044+08:00ST: Joy and tears of being women (Oct 4)Oct 4, 2008<br />Joy and tears of being women<br />From first menstrual cramps to love and sex, this feminist play is<br />fun-filled and thoughtful<br />By tara tan<br /><br />reviewtheatre<br />THE VAGINA MONOLOGUES<br />Zebra Crossing<br />Drama Centre Theatre @ National Library<br />Last Thursday<br /><br />This is Dim Sum Dollies-meets-Oprah - stories about love, family and<br />sex doused with tears and showered with laughter.<br /><br />Eve Ensler's landmark play, The Vagina Monologues, played here by nine<br />women, is a series of vignettes that grapple with female issues from<br />domestic abuse to the first menstrual cramp.<br /><br />Directed by Loretta Chen, this play had no qualms about its anti-men<br />slant: Father figures or male lovers are largely absent in this play.<br /><br />Powerful feminist statements were made, such as chanting a certain<br />derogatory word (that rhymes with 'aunt') to reclaim it as a word of<br />worth.<br /><br />Although the pacing in the first half was jerky, it hit a home run<br />with Loke Loo Pin's monologue, Because He Liked To See It. Playing an<br />elderly woman coming to terms with her vagina, a word she can't even<br />bring herself to say, Loke's deadpan humour - delivered with<br />impeccable comic timing - was a lethal combination.<br /><br />Another very funny scene was between a lesbian sex worker (played by<br />Sabrina Chong) and a geeky girl on the cusp of sexual discovery<br />(Eleine Ng) with their inventory of orgasmic soundtracks.<br /><br />In another scene, transsexual Elnina's brutally honest telling of the<br />trials and tribulations she endures was heartbreaking. The inclusion<br />of this monologue, taken from another of Ensler's plays, added a<br />significant dimension to this work.<br /><br />Elizabeth Tan's young girl who goes through childhood sexual abuse but<br />finds salvation with an older woman in The Coochie Snorcher That Could<br />gave me mixed feelings, however.<br /><br />Presented as a Dear Diary monologue, the text was hard-hitting but Tan<br />seemed joyfully detached from her past. Having said that, the actress<br />later put in an emotional turn in the role of an abused wife.<br /><br />However, the series of short monologues sometimes felt too abrupt,<br />with its transitions shaky and irreverent. The music was also often<br />overly sentimental.<br /><br />It did not seem as hard-hitting as previous versions staged in<br />Singapore. For instance, the scene dealing with genital mutilation was<br />played out with a video on butchery and accompanied with statistics.<br />In Li Xie's The Vaginalogue in 2003, which was based on the same play,<br />Li carved and sewed up a hunk of raw meat on stage, a visceral image<br />that is seared in my memory still.<br /><br />Kudos to Chen for letting her nine performers' individual<br />personalities shine through. Most women would be able to identify<br />facets of themselves in them.<br /><br />Also, intriguing directorial decisions gave this piece an added edge,<br />like how wealthy socialities laughingly exchanged stories of spousal<br />abuse at a lush party.<br /><br />The Vagina Monologues is an enjoyable, fun and thoughtful production,<br />a should-see for women and their men.<br /><br />taratan@sph.com.sg<br /><br />watch it<br /><br />THE VAGINA MONOLOGUES<br /><br />R18 (Adult Content & Strong Language)<br /><br />Who: Zebra Crossing<br />When: Till Oct 12, 8pm (no shows on Monday), Sat & Sun matinees at 3pm<br />Tickets: $17 to $57 from Sistic (log on to www.sistic.com.sg or call<br />6348-5555)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-76766992806554380812008-10-04T17:07:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:09:15.586+08:00RedQueen Celebrates 10 years!*where - Pelangi Pride Centre<br />*when - 4th October 2008<br />*time - 8.30pm<br /><br />*for women only<br /><br />*by rsvp only<br /><br />*please rsvp to [redqueen underscore at hotmail dot com] with your<br />full name and a contact number. <br /><br />CONGRATULATIONS REDQUEEN! WELL DONE! :)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-27451169586429257682008-10-01T17:18:00.001+08:002008-11-08T17:20:55.988+08:00Herstory NewsletterHerstory @The Boiler Room<br />09 Oct 2008<br />Herstory presents the first game show - DO YOU KNOW THE LYRICS? 6 Bold contestants take centrestage at The Boiler Room to challenge for $500 worth of CASH & Prizes. Come & support the contestants and watch them battle it out along side with Gino & Soul Kool Band. Semi Final round on 9 October at 11pm. See you @The Boiler Room! You know you won't want to miss this.<br /><br />Collect the NEW Herstory Party Card<br />Never miss a great party again with this newly launched Herstory Party Card.<br />Specially for all Herstory Parties Supporters, collect the NEW Herstory Party Card and claim your perks.<br /><br />Herstory has lined-up a year's worth of great fun and surprises for you. Collect a stamp each time you attend our Herstory party. Every 3 stamps will entitle you to a FREE entry to our party. Get all 9 stamps and you will receive a fabulous mystery gift! (It's so good that you must own it, serious!)<br /><br />Party on grrls, and we'll see you there.<br /><br />Sign up for 1 Year of Herstory BLACK to receive:<br />Privilege online surfing @www.herstory.ws<br />Herstory Black Membership Card valid for 1 year<br />1 FREE Party Entry Pass<br />Roxy beach bag<br />LePride's Car Decal<br /><br />Don't miss Herstory Grrls Only Party happening at ZOUK and The BOILER ROOM at St James Power Station on 2nd Thursday of every month.<br /><br />Whether you want to sit and chat or dance and cruise, you're guaranteed to find something you'll like at Herstory Party. See ya..<br /><br />Showtime<br />Herstory - DO YOU KNOW THE LYRICS? starts at 11.00pm<br />Performance by Soul Kool Band at 11.30pm<br /><br />Party Theme<br />Hip Hop and Funky!<br /><br />Programme Highlights<br />Chillout 9pm-10pm<br />Showtime - DO YOU KNOW THE LYRICS? 11.00pm<br />Performance by Soul Kool Band at 11.30pm<br />Chart Topping Hip Hop and Sexy R&B Dance Music 12am-2.30am (by The Boiler Room resident DJ)<br />Pop Hits Dance Music till 3am (by The Boiler Room resident DJ)<br /><br />Drinks Promotion<br />One for One on all standard housepour 9pm-10pm<br /><br />Admission<br />No Cover Charge<br />Applies to all members/non members<br />Herstory Members - $5<br />Non Herstory Members - $10<br />Entry for men - Subject to Approval at Door ($15)<br />POLICY : Mainly womyn with men as guests<br /><br />Table Reservations<br />Email: party@herstory.ws<br />SMS: +65 91700517<br /><br />LOCATION<br />St James Power Station<br />3 Sentosa Gateway<br />Singapore 098544<br /><br />MRT / BUS<br />Harbour Front Station<br /><br />OPENING HOUR<br />9pm - 3am<br />Every 2nd Thursday MonthlyUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-34665218006073607592008-09-30T17:09:00.001+08:002008-11-08T17:11:48.061+08:00BlogTV Episode 5: Am I Gay? (Sept 30)From the BlogTV website<br /><br />Episode 5: Am I gay?<br />Catch it on Tuesday, 30 September at 8:30 pm on Channel NewsAsia<br /><br />When you were 16, perhaps younger, and beginning to understand<br />yourself better – what happens when you find that unlike your<br />classmates you are different? You're not attracted to the opposite sex?<br /><br />A poll was conducted in 2007 and of the 187 secondary school respondents:<br /><br />* 33% felt that homosexuality was wrong<br />* More than 35% felt that homosexuals were responsible for passing AIDS<br />* 42% blamed gay people for paedophilia<br /><br />This poll raises the issue of whether there is enough frank talk about<br />homosexuality among younger students. Is the topic of homosexuality<br />still taboo in schools, and are schools doing enough to educate<br />students about their sexual orientation? Or is it a case of 'if I<br />don't talk about it, it ain't there.'<br /><br />This week BlogTV turns the spotlight onto sex education. Is it enough<br />to just discuss safe sex? Should we not be discussing all the<br />different sexualities as well? How educational is our sex education<br />system anyway? And seriously, should teachers be teaching sex amidst<br />history, English literature etc?<br /><br />We ask these questions and more as we attempt to answer the question<br />that might occur to every adolescent at least once - am I Gay?<br /><br />With our guests, we look away from excuses and seek answers to see if<br />our education for youths needs to be revamped to include alternative<br />perspectives.<br /><br />You can also catch a repeat of the programme at these following times:<br />30th September, 11.30pm<br />1st October, 1.30pm<br />2nd October, 5.30pmUnknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2749707541883851062.post-55894312017593010672008-09-29T17:14:00.000+08:002008-11-08T17:18:43.993+08:00ST: 8 questions with... Loretta Chen (Sept 29)Sep 29, 2008<br />8 questions with... Loretta Chen<br />Wild thing<br />First, an Annabel Chong play. Now, The Vagina Monologues. Loretta Chen<br />is big on taboos<br />By tara tan<br /><br />Theatre director Loretta Chen, 31, is a political animal who pushes<br />boundaries on and off the stage.<br /><br />Her controversial play about Singaporean porn star Annabel Chong, 251,<br />got people talking when it was staged in April last year.<br /><br />She is also an active member of the Young PAP and posed questions<br />about censorship to Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew at a youth dialogue<br />last year.<br /><br />Chen was recently nominated by DrTeo Ho Pin, mayor of North West<br />district, to be in the North West Community Development Corporation's<br />executive committee.<br /><br />Her current project is Eve Ensler's feminist play, The Vagina<br />Monologues, which opens on Wednesday. The play also marks the<br />inaugural show of her new company, Zebra Crossing.<br /><br />Here is a little-known fact: She is also the baby sister of television<br />actor Edmund Chen.<br /><br />'As a 10-year-old, I used to tag along to all his filming sessions,'<br />chuckled Chen, who is 14 years younger than her brother.<br /><br />'That was what got me hooked on performances: seeing my big brother<br />turn into someone else on screen.'<br /><br />Born to a clerk and a housewife, Chen, who grew up in a two-room flat<br />in Tanglin Halt, calls herself 'a complete accident'.<br /><br />'My dad was 41 and my mum was 39 when they had me. Eric, my second<br />eldest brother, is only three years apart from Edmund,' said Chen.<br /><br />She went on to study theatre studies at the National University of<br />Singapore, where she now teaches part-time while pursuing her<br />doctorate on queer performances staged in Singapore.<br /><br />In 1999, she headed to University of London's Royal Holloway for her<br />master's, before starting on her doctorate at the University of<br />California in Los Angeles where she lived for over two years.<br /><br />She returned to Singapore in 2002 and went on to garner a Life!<br />Theatre Awards nomination for Best Director for Ten Brothers, a cheeky<br />retelling of a Chinese folktale about 10 siblings who each possesses a<br />different superpower.<br /><br />1. What draws you to controversial plays?<br /><br />I am drawn to material which is overlooked in mainstream society and I<br />question why people react to it that way.<br /><br />The contents often centre on fascinating personalities such as strong<br />women, as well as issues I feel very much for.<br /><br />2. I hear you are quite superstitious. Is that why you are dressed in<br />all white today?<br /><br />Yes, my geomancer told me it is my lucky colour. I just thought, what<br />the heck. I bought a white car, lots of white clothes, then white<br />shoes and white bags to match.<br /><br />When I was harbouring thoughts of starting a theatre company, I got my<br />fortune told in a temple in China that said I should start my business<br />with my close friends, which I did.<br /><br />3. Why name your theatre company Zebra Crossing?<br /><br />(Laughs) I have a theory for that. We spend a lot of time on the road,<br />where people have little patience or much space.<br /><br />At zebra crossings, however, traffic ceases to exist and only people<br />matter. No matter how important the driver is or how big the car, you<br />have to stop for the pedestrian.<br /><br />Zebra Crossing will produce all sorts of theatre, from Broadway<br />musicals to newly commissioned works.<br /><br />4. What does theatre mean to you?<br /><br />When I was studying in California in 2002, my partner committed<br />suicide. Theatre, in a way, helped me deal with this very difficult<br />time. I was able to look at it as if it was a scene from my life's play.<br /><br />Sometimes, when something melodramatic happens to you, you need to be<br />able to distance yourself and look at it with some objectivity.<br /><br />5. What was your childhood like?<br /><br />I grew up in a working-class family but I always had enough even<br />though we were not very rich. The house was full of love.<br /><br />I never felt poorer than my classmates, who were always jetting off on<br />holidays to the United States or Europe.<br /><br />I had nice pencil cases and birthday parties at McDonald's. Thinking<br />back, all these must have cost my parents quite a bit but they gave<br />them to me so I was never in want of anything.<br /><br />6. What do you think makes a strong woman and do you think of yourself<br />as one?<br /><br />To me, a strong woman is someone who says she can do anything she puts<br />her mind to. Sometimes, it takes more strength to be able to say you<br />are wrong or you are not good at something.<br /><br />As a director, I rely on my collaborators. I have ideas but need<br />talented people to carry them out. We directors are useless without<br />them behind us.<br /><br />7. What made you join the Young PAP?<br /><br />If you want to make a change, you have to actively make it and that<br />means working within the political avenues.<br /><br />Some people get quite disheartened, cynical and feel powerless because<br />they keep criticising from the outside.<br /><br />I say: Jump in and fight for what you believe in. Theatre is a great<br />platform for me to be politically aware and socially involved while<br />still being creative.<br /><br />8. Complete this sentence. If I could live my life all over again,<br />Iwould...<br /><br />Not change it at all. I needed to go through my life the way I did.<br /><br />On a lighter note, however, I wished I went for my bunion operation<br />earlier. I am going for it next month but now my feet look funny.<br /><br />taratan@sph.com.sg<br /><br />book it<br /><br />THE VAGINA MONOLOGUES<br />(Rated R18 for adult content and strong language)<br /><br />Who: Zebra Crossing<br />When: Wednesday to Oct 12 (except Mondays and Sundays) at 8pm.<br />Matinees on Saturdays and Sundays at 3pm<br />Where: Drama Centre Theatre @ National Library Building<br />Tickets: $17 to $57 from Sistic (log on to www.sistic.com.sg or call<br />6348-5555)Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0